NDK r18 drops GCC toolchains and some STL types. We need to choose a
clang toolchain by default when no gcc toolchains are available. Switch
the STL type default to `c++_static` when the old `gnustl_static`
default is not available.
Update the test suite to not run tests for STL types that do not exist.
Also do not expect the gcc toolchain `cpp` tool to be available because
r18 does not provide it. Also teach it to tolerate `gcc -dumpmachine`
output like `arm--linux-android` that differs from the toolchain prefix.
Fixes: #18301
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